“Now Naomi had a relative of her husband’s, a worthy man of the clan of Elimelech, whose name was Boaz. And Ruth the Moabite said to Naomi, Let me go to the field and glean among the ears of grain after him in whose sight I shall find favor. And she said to her, Go, my daughter. So she set out and went and gleaned in the field after the reapers, and she happened to come to the part of the field belonging to Boaz, who was of the clan of Elimelech. And behold, Boaz came from Bethlehem. And he said to the reapers, The LORD be with you! And they answered, The LORD bless you. Then Boaz said to his young man who was in charge of the reapers, Whose young woman is this? And the servant who was in charge of the reapers answered, She is the young Moabite woman, who came back with Naomi from the country of Moab. She said, Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves after the reapers. So she came, and she has continued from early morning until now, except for a short rest.
Then Boaz said to Ruth, Now, listen, my daughter, do not go to glean in another field or leave this one, but keep close to my young women. Let your eyes be on the field that they are reaping, and go after them. Have I not charged the young men not to touch you? And when you are thirsty, go to the vessels and drink what the young men have drawn. Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground, and said to him, Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner? But Boaz answered her, All that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been fully told to me, and how you left your father and mother and your native land and came to a people that you did not know before. The LORD repay you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge! Then she said, I have found favor in your eyes, my lord, for you have comforted me and spoken kindly to your servant, though I am not one of your servants.
And at mealtime Boaz said to her, Come here and eat some bread and dip your morsel in the wine. So she sat beside the reapers, and he passed to her roasted grain. And she ate until she was satisfied, and she had some left over. When she rose to glean, Boaz instructed his young men, saying, Let her glean even among the sheaves, and do not reproach her. And also pull out some from the bundles for her and leave it for her to glean, and do not rebuke her.”
~Ruth 2:1-16
This week we look at the concept of a godly woman. Every woman has the potential to be godly, however the concept is often poorly defined for women today. This is not because the Bible isn’t clear, but because our culture doesn’t like what it says. The Bible is blatantly clear about what a godly woman looks like and what women were created for and created to do (the same is also true of men). The problem is that when most women look at it, they don’t want it. The common belief about what the Bible says about women is that it is male driven, and demeaning to women. This couldn’t be further from the truth. The fact is that the Bible holds women in much higher esteem than probably any other religion in the world. There is no other religion I am aware of where if one woman is raped, a whole city is killed (Genesis 34), or where men are commanded (not suggested) to NOT be harsh with their wife. The Bible in fact shows more dignity and respect to women than most give it credit for.
In this passage we see a few things in Ruth that are very characteristic of what God wants his women to be. First, she is humble. Ruth humbles herself to go and glean, which can be very demeaning, and is reserved only for the lowest of Hebrew society. Ruth willingly humbles herself to perform this service for her mother-in-law. Ruth also trusts in God. Gleaning was also very dangerous, especially for a foreign woman. This is the very reason that Boaz offers her his protection, because if she went to another field then she could be assaulted, raped or even killed. Ruth trusted God to provide for her safety, which He did.
Another thing that we see is that her reputation precedes her. She has built a reputation of being faithful and honoring to God and her mother-in-law in a very short time. Her reputation is so great that Boaz knows all about her before they had ever met. This is a principle that is often true, both good and bad. Women tend to have a reputation either of godliness, or not godliness. This reputation is often known by many people before she ever meets them. This means that people will often make up their mind about someone before they ever meet them because of their reputation, this is why it is so important.
She also is a very hard worker. Ruth works very hard, and takes only a brief rest, then goes back to work. Harvesting grain is hard work, period. And she did it, didn’t complain, and did it well. The fact is that women, and men, should work hard, without complaint. Ruth is also a respectful woman. A godly woman is respectful of the men God has placed in her life. Now, this does not include all men who happen to be in her life. It does however include her father, husband, pastor, and any other male authority figure that God has placed over her. The fact is that these men are placed there by God to both lead, provide for, and protect her. And for this reason they should to be respected.
The last resource for the attributes of a godly woman is spoken of in Proverbs 31 starting in verse 10. In this passage of scripture God saw fit to have this one woman written of in scripture. She is a very godly woman, and is the example in scripture of the ideal woman. This passage should be on every girl’s mirror or door to read regularly and compare herself to. This is a goal and something to aspire towards.
I pray this helps women learn the Biblical truths about what God created womanhood to be, because it is truly beautiful to see God’s creation at it’s best. I pray that the women who look at the Bible and disagree will realize that they are disagreeing not just with Paul, or Peter, or Moses, or the Bible, but with God. I pray that men would be men of God, and would seek to provide an environment where a woman can flourish into this, as opposed to trying to force it, which never works. And lastly I pray that God is glorified by both our masculinity and our femininity as we pursue righteousness through His son, Jesus Christ. God bless.